Now ladies, today this blog is for you but,men read this very closely. Ladies,I want you to think about when you were a little girl and how you dreamed of marrying the perfect guy.We wanted to find the love of our lives and we wanted that man to love us for who we are. I am sure as you went through your junior high years you had many boyfriends(because i know i did),but they weren't really anything. But, as you got into high school and college you were looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with. Your whole mind set of dating changes as you get older and especially after you graduate. I guess you could say that you take dating a little more serious.
Well, at this very moment I am in a tough position.I am looking for someone to love me for who I am. I feel like I get attracted to all the jerk boys, and i feel like there is no perfect man out there for me. Right now, this boy and I are kind of dating. We fight a lot and he gets mad because he does not like certain things about me. All my friends tell me to get rid of him, because he is not worth it. But, I feel like I am never going to find anyone else.Why do i have to be so impatient? I feel like all the boys I have dated over the last few years want me to be someone different. They want me to change and be someone I am not. My mom and all my friends have always told me, not to ever change for a boy. They also said if someone ever wants you to change for them, then they are not the right guy for you.
As I was driving home from school today, I was thinking about my day. I thought about how the boy I liked got mad at me for simply asking a question and that upset me. I am the type of person to ask a lot of questions, and I guess I cannot help it. As i continued my drive,I heard the song According to You by Orianthi. This song talks about how one guy loves her for her and then another guy does not love her for her. One particular part of the song stuck out to me the most and it states " I need to feel appreciated like I'm not hated." These few words are so true. Everyone, not just women need to be loved and we never should get treated badly. We also need to be cared about, and that does not just mean being nice but that also means, loving someone for who they are. No one ever should have to change for someone.
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Changing things about yourself for a guy can be bad or good. You should never change to make them happy if your not. changing because you found someone that makes you a better person is always a positive.
ReplyDeleteI love, love that song! Fortunately for me, I'm not in the same boat as you are. Nice guys are out there, trust me. :]
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